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September 27, 2005

Swingers go public

I am sure you have seen the talk shows that have had
swingers on, I know we have and we get so pissed when they (the talk show hosts) don't understand nor do they care to understand what swinging is all about. Most times they have couples on the show at the same time where one spouse has cheated on the other and they talk more about cheating and how they got over it than they do the
swingers.
Recently a very well known talk show host had this very topic on, and she too had these couples who have cheated and not once was it clarified that
swinging and cheating are two totally seperate things!
Hubby and I were so ticked, yet not enough to the point of going on national tv and letting people in our community know we swing, mostly because it's in the bible belt and boy would that be something for the towns folk to talk about!
We were wondering why the hosts of these talk shows don't do their homework before they have these people on and try and understand that it's a lifestyle we choose and not something we do behind our partners back, and that it takes totally committed couples who are trusting and truthful with eachother to be able to swing, not couples looking to fix something in their marriage.
Not all couples are fine with just being with eachother, things do get boring, you do miss the tease and foreplay, and yes, after so many years together no matter what you do, and no matter how great sex is, there is still something missing, and it's usually that first time excitement, and THAT and only THAT is what we are looking for!
I can't speak for all the
swingers out there, but I know that is what hubby and I look for in the couples we are with and we love that excitement and it actually enhances our sexlife and doesn't hinder it at all and has opened us up emencely to eachother and within ourselves.
Sorry if I bored you, but boy were we mad at this talk show host!

Jenny

Posted by jenny at September 27, 2005 12:08 PM