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April 4, 2008

Soft Swinging

When John and I first got into swinging, one of the things we agreed on was that we wouldn't let others rules interfere in what we wanted or our rules. We knew that there were swingers out there that didn't want to have intercourse, that was fine if that was their rule, but we wanted intercourse and so we looked for those that had the same thoughts and ideas as us.

One day we received an email from a very attractive couple. They were interested in us and wanted to know if the feeling was mutual. They sent a few pics along with their email and we were quite intrigued by this couple. They were very much like us, but toward the end of their email, they had mentioned that they don't swap. They were soft swing only. We were a bit disappointed and then we started talking. Sure we enjoy fucking and being fucked by others, but what was wrong with just enjoying the touch and sensuality of another couple, even if it was just that and oral?

We decided we would try it just this once, and if all went well, we would have learned something and a whole new group would be open to us.

We emailed them back and explained our position. We told them that we would love to meet them and of course would respect their limits if we all decided to take it further than a meeting.

We met for drinks and dancing, it was amazing how well we all clicked. We danced, laughed and talked for what seemed like hours, by the time we actually checked the time, we realized we had only been dancing and talking for a little over a couple hours. The night was still very young!

We decided to try another club that had a better atmosphere and better music. When we got there it was not very busy, so we were able to actually talk without hollering, and dance without bumping into others.

We danced, drank, and flirted alot that night! It was a nice, slow, steady experience. John and I said goodnight around midnight, and when we got home, we had just about the best sex we had, had in quite awhile. Don't get me wrong, our sex was always great, but this couple put us on a different level that night.

We talked on the phone quite a few times after that before we were able to get our schedules together. We then made plans to meet again at the last club we had gone to. It was wonderful seeing them again, and it felt like we had known eachother forever.

We had a few drinks and danced a bit before we decided to go back to their place for a few more drinks and whatever else....

We never thought we would enjoy the company of a couple as much as we did them. There was no intercourse that night, we did however have great oral sex as well as some awesome girl/girl fun.

Over the months of getting to know eachother, we have come to find that soft swinging is just as much fun as the other. We get together a few times a month now, and sometimes with other soft swing couples as well.

Never underestimate soft swingers, they are alot of fun!!

Kisses-Jenny

Posted by jenny at April 4, 2008 8:07 AM